If you've found this page, there's a good chance you already know a lot about yourself.
You've read the books. You've done the therapy. You've listened to the podcasts, highlighted the passages, nodded along to every episode. You can name the pattern. You can explain it to a friend with clarity, and maybe even a little dark humour.
And then you find yourself, again, with the same kind of man.
That's who this site is for.
Why I had it built
I had this website built for two reasons, and both matter to me.
The first is practical. When a woman is looking for support after a controlling relationship, she's often searching alone, late at night, trying to find words for something she can barely say out loud yet. So I needed this site to be found. That means showing up when she searches on Google, and in the AI tools more and more people now use to find a service. If the right woman is looking, I'd like her to find the support that's right for her, when she needs it.
The second reason is more personal. One of my values is personal growth and learning, and I wanted a website that reflects what I've learnt, where I am now, and what's important to me. My old site didn't do that. This one does.
What's changed
The site now speaks to one woman.
Not women in general. Not anyone going through a hard time. The woman who has left a controlling relationship, keeps finding the same kind of man, and is frightened her judgement is permanently broken. The woman who is thoughtful, self-aware, and still stuck.
My work is online only, by secure video, anywhere in Australia or overseas. I live and work on Dharawal country, based in Wollongong, and where you live doesn't have to stand in the way.
You'll find a Services page where my programmes are laid out, a Client Stories page, an About page with my story and qualifications, and a Contact page. The first step offered on every page is the same: the FREE 7-Day Manipulation Detox.
What I do, and why it's different
Here's what I would like you to consider.
Understanding a pattern and changing the response underneath it are two different processes.
Most of what women try, the therapy, the books, the self-reflection, works at the level of understanding. And understanding matters. But it doesn't always reach the part of you that's still responding the way it learned to respond a long time ago.
Nothing is wrong with you. What kept you safe once is still making decisions. That part can be worked with.
I work with the response underneath, using Counselling alongside Clinical Hypnotherapy and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Not instead of understanding. Alongside it.
Rediscover. Reconnect. Recreate my life.
Where to start
If you're new here, I'd encourage you to start with the FREE 7-Day Manipulation Detox.
It's a FREE email challenge: one short email a day for 7 days, designed to help you spot red flags before you fall for them. It's a place to begin.
Start the FREE 7-Day Manipulation Detox
You’re not doing this alone.
Rediscover. Reconnect. Recreate my life.
